As I watched the 17th annual AIDS conference come to an end and the Olympics begin, I found  myself wondering what the two host countries might, as members of what Westerners refer to as "developing nations," have in common, especially when it comes to sex and safety.  Perhaps surprisingly given that one country struggles just to survive and the other is taking its place as a new world leader, it turns out to be quite a lot.

     As the spectacular opening ceremonies of the Olympics take place in Beijing, the saga of "safe sex" is perhaps not so pretty.  China was very slow in coming to grips with the arrival of AIDS to that country, where the first case was identified in 1985. Subsequent infection was simply blamed on visiting foreigners infecting unsuspecting Chinese. At that time AIDS and drug addiction were seen as consequences of contact with the West, and AIDS was known as aizibing, the "loving capitalism disease". Poverty also aided its spread, as so many poor people sold their blood in order to keep food on the table, by the mid-90s, the blood banks were full, but were also another source for the spread of the disease.

     It was not until 2001 that the Chinese government took its head out of the sand and began a nationwide anti-AIDS campaign.  Today, in a population of 1300 million (one out of every five people in the world live in China), .1 percent of its citizens have HIV/AIDS.  In 2007, 39,000 died of AIDS and the group most likely to become HIV positive is gay men, who traditionally have been the invisibles in a society that does not want to admit that homosexuality even exists in China; gays have always lived in a sort of netherworld.  Education programs about safe sex have left them out of the equation, and they have been the least likely to have had access to condoms and other preventative information.  Although there is tacit acknowledgment of this fact, this is still the worst affected group in China, followed by drug users and sex workers.

     To China's credit, beginning in 2001, officials have been trying to educate about prevention, going so far as to require, by the end of 2008, that all hotels in China make condoms available to guests (though these will not be free!) It is also interesting to note that as educational efforts increase in China, the average age of the first sexual encounter is going down, while the percentage of people who have premarital sex is going up.  The Chinese are also marrying a bit earlier than in the past, at just under 22.

     And then, on the other side of the world, there is the host of a very different kind of international event; as Mexico was the site of the 17th International AIDS Conference, it is interesting and very disturbing to look at what HIV/AIDS is doing to that nation.  First, .3 percent of Mexicans have AIDS; it is estimated that almost 3,000 of those are children under 14 and these are said to be the most marginalized of all of Mexico's victims.  But the biggest threat appears to be its porous borders between the US and Tijuana, where millions of people cross back and forth every week.  Most of these border crossers are illegals (in the US) and live pretty sad existences.  The men - who are the majority - participate in dangerous behaviours, to include "man-to-man" sex, drug use, sex with prostitutes, and are travelling AIDS incubuses, which is a double threat to Mexico and the US. Though it is impossible to tweeze out just who is living where when, the available numbers are disturbing: people of Mexican-origin make up 15% of the US population and they account for 18% of the new AIDS yearly diagnoses in that country.  Just which of these are Mexican migrants is impossible to know, as they are the least likely to go for testing.  But, it is known that small border towns are seeing increasing numbers of cases, and there are more and more reports of the partners of migrant workers contracting the disease after their partners return from working in the US.  The majority of these are of child bearing age, which of course means more and more AIDS babies.

     So, the hosts to the most spectacular Olympics opening ceremonies ever and the hosts to the conference which continued to pass on the bad news about the state of the world’s sexual health do have some things in common: A large percentage of those who are becoming infected in those cultures are gay men, yet only 1% of the monies spent on education and prevention is directed toward them; in China, gay men are 45 times more likely to contract HIV than straights, in Mexico, they are 109 times more likely - both countries are on the top of the heap in regards to the sharp increase in gays contracting HIV/AIDS.  The reasons are probably obvious: both countries suffer from cultural norms which foster homophobic and social hostility toward gays, which has completely marginalized this group. 
  
     Meanwhile, HIV/AIDS continues to spread almost unchecked amongst Chinese and Mexican gays.





 

 

From the Daily Mail, is this British men coming out of the cross dresser closet in a big way, or simply "gross"?
Introducing Guy-liner and Manscara - the new metrosexual make-up just for men
July 28, 2008


In an increasingly metrosexual world, perhaps it was just a matter of time.

But yesterday a high street store announced that it would start stocking makeup designed just for men.

'Guy-liner' and 'Manscara' to enhance the eyes of the male in your life, will appear in Superdrug this week.

Joining the ranks: Superdrug is launching Taxi Man the first high street male cosmetics range

Yesterday, the company's director of trading Jeff Wemyss insisted that its cosmetics - branded Taxi Man - are not just for transvestites.

He said: "These days you can  be macho and wear make-up.  If you look at people like Russell Brand and Robbie Williams, they both wear make-up and they are both very red-blooded men.

'Men are more obsessed with their appearance than ever before.  There is no longer any pain in being seen to be vain.'

He added: 'We believe there is a real market for cosmetic products.  The majority of our customers are women and we believe that these products will be bought by women for their partners, as well as by men themselves.'

Make-up role model: Russell Brand is famous for wearing eye-liner and mascara

The cosmetics' creator Peter Kelly said: 'We've developed essentials any guy would borrow from his other half.


'It's about subtle make-up rather than wanting to create the drag queen look.'

A spokesman for the company said that 'Guy-liner' pencil is chunkier than the female equivalent and therefore easier for men, who have bigger hands, to use.


However, it was less clear how the 'Manscara' differs from normal mascara.

In recent years the men's grooming market has boomed as men become increasingly less ashamed of been seen to take care of their appearance.

According to business analysts Mintel, the UK market is worth £700m annually and is predicted to grow to £820m next year.


Until now most of the business has been for products such as shave cream, hair care products and moisturisers.

Yesterday Lucy Mines, the Daily Mail's beauty editor, cast doubt on whether the new men-only range of make-up would catch on with British men.

She said: 'I can imagine how some of the products, such as concealer, may be popular with men who want to hide blemishes.

'But I would have thought it unlikely that straight men would want to wear eye-liner or mascara.  When I asked my male friends whether they would wear it, they all replied with a very firm "no."

'However, a few years ago you would not have found many men admitting to wearing fake tan and now that is something that you see quite a lot.

'But I think it will be a very long time indeed before it is generally accepted practice for men to put on some eye-liner before coming into the office.'

 

The Sun's editors pondered just how condom advertising would read, if major British brands kept their slogans - except for the rubber bit!!

IMAGINE if major retailers started making condoms and kept the same slogans...
Sainsbury's condoms -Making life taste better.
Tesco condoms -Every little helps.
Nike condoms -Just do it.
Coca-Cola condoms -The real thing.
Renault condoms -Size really does matter.
Peugeot condoms -The ride of your life.
Energizer condoms -Keep going and going.
Heineken condoms -Reaches parts that other condoms just cannot reach.
Carlsberg condoms -Probably the best condom in the world.
Burger King condoms -Home of the whopper.
Galaxy condoms -Why have rubber when you can have silk.
Goodyear condoms -For a longer ride, go wide.
Andrex condoms -Soft, strong and very long.
Polo condoms -The condom with the hole.